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Personal space can be a big issue can't it.

Ever seen that person banging on their halter or lead rope to get their horse out of their space? Only to have the horse throw its head in the air but not actually move its feet? Looks ugly doesn't it.. Yes, there is a better way.


Horses are all about consistency, so if one minute you're not paying attention and you've allowed your horse into your personal space, but then a couple of minutes later you are banging on that lead rope and halter to back them out of your space, maybe you can see why that might seem confusing to them. This is a fairly obvious example, but there can be many subtle weight shifts while you're not paying attention that can mean the same thing. This is just the sort of inconsistency that will put big holes in your leadership and draw on your rapport bank big time.

If you are consistent all the time on your personal space, your horse firstly will be more relaxed and if you do need to 'get him out of your space' you'll be able to do it in a quiet and confident way, without getting loud and big and without any pushing or throwing around of heads.

It can be confusing. What if I allow more horse in so I can give him a smooch and just enjoy him being there? Nothing wrong with that, just be aware you've allowed him in - on your terms.

How about when my horse keeps walking over the top of me when Im leading him, or maybe just poking his shoulder at me at feed time? You know that horse that 'almost' steps on your toes.. There's a lot wrong with that, and potentially just downright dangerous. If your horse is pushing on your space here, chances are he's pushing thru your leg in the saddle, has more whoah than go, or no brakes, blows out on your patterns and heavy on the reins or refuses to go into the float. None of these are because your horse is out to annoy or frustrate you. But he is asking you, if not pleading with you to step up and be a better leader and to lead with consistency. Horses are by nature easy going, go with flow creatures but they do demand good leadership. Its kept their species alive for a very long time, so if they feel you're not up to the task they will let you know it and step up to that spot themselves.

I quite often see young brumbies leaning on their handlers personal space and being pushy, particularly when they are in a situation where they are looking for good leadership, needing someone else to step up. Horses start practicing this with each other at a very early age. If you watch yearlings playing you'll see them jostling each other as they practice positioning themselves within the herd. They are very good at it and can be very subtle!


Know before hand what you are willing to allow or not allow and draw that line in the sand, and do it right now. This will make you clearer in your expectations to your horse and your consistency. Take the time to do some pondering before picking up that lead rope and heading out to your horse. There's a load of questions you can ask yourself: What am I wishing to achieve today? What are my expectations of my horse? What am I releasing on? Where are my boundaries? How can I be clearer?

Remember too, that a horse is still just a horse so they may have off days, or be influenced more by their surroundings, which may move the bar on what you achieve for the day but never your boundaries. You will find that the better you get with these, the less those outside influences will determine how your horse behaves as his confidence grows in your leadership and himself.

Awareness is the first step, but there are also lots of cool tasks you can do with your horse to help you be more consistent with your personal space bubble. Just add them into your daily routine, be consistent and before you know it you'll be on the way to having a less pushy horse. Let me pre warn you though, if you've been allowing your horse to push on your space, it may take some practice to change that mindset so be patient but stick with it, don't be afraid to step up!

So I guess my whole point is put a priority on being more conscious of your boundaries including your personal space and by making it part of how you behave around your horse, you will be more consistent in where you draw the line and soon you'll be able to do so quietly and quickly without all the big phases or emotion. And it will keep you safe!

Keep smiling ;)


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Updated: Jun 29

It’s a good time to reflect with another brumby training camp opportunity coming up in a couple of months… (it’s going to come around really quickly!)


I love riding in the rain, but sometimes it can be hard to be motivated to leave the comfort of the fireplace on a cold wintery day so I thought I’d share a blog I wrote a couple of years ago. I hope you get to take something away from it like I did… It’s a long one so you might like to crab a cuppa.



In 2016 I had the absolute pleasure to participate in and experience the Australian Brumby Challenge with the very charismatic Jack, at the time a Kosi yearling. Then in December 2018 I was able to share some of that experience with 5 other like minded horsemen and women, along with the tuition of 2 of Australia’s best Horsemen Shane and Meredith Ransley, Founders of the Quantum Savvy Horsemanship Program. I hope it was an experience that will stay with them all on their horsemanship journeys forever.


It was a familiar road travelled for me, one that I’d done countless times over the past 11 or so years, arriving at Brumby Junction to bounding greyhounds, the clang of cattle yards and the nervous quietness of newly yarded Brumbies. I was very thankful to the Victorian Brumby Association for allowing us the privilege to spend time at the Sanctuary and the difficult decision to entrust the wild ones to us for training.


For my friends and colleagues however this was all new and exciting as they anticipated the beginning of whole new experience. We had trainers from as far as Surrey in the UK, the dusty plains of central New South Wales and as close as Natte Yallock, just 1 hour down the road.


Victoria did its best to turn on the weather, we had it all, freezing cold, gorgeous sunshine and wind! For the next 10 days we would be camping together at the Junction, sharing horsemanship and friendship around the fire, in the classroom and in the yards, learning from the experts - our wild and unhandled brumbies.


Shane, our Master Horseman and teacher for the 10 days paired each of us with a brumby, one that we felt would teach us the most. As he always is, Shane was a wealth of knowledge and his willingness to share is something I will always be very grateful for. We spent the next 10 days learning as much about ourselves as we did teaching these brumbies about people, about domestic life and hopefully help them to cut some slack to the humans who come into their lives. All these brumbies were soon to be available from the VBA for adoption, so it was our job to make this transition as seamless as possible.


A word from the wild..

The wild horse is a wealth of knowledge for us to draw upon, they have a great gift to instill upon us, both in our horsemanship and our own humanity. While we are preparing them to be engaged and think in our domestic world, they have so much to share with us about how to be better horsemen (and women of course!). The lessons I’ve learnt from my wild friends are exponential to those of our domestic companions. They don’t have the ‘human filter’, the feedback from the Brumby is pure and instant, and if we can step aside from our wants and expectations and dare I say it - egos…. we have the potential to build an amazing partnership. They truly are a reflection of our principles, how we apply them and what we’ve rewarded.

Our goal was to achieve as much as we could without any tools. As Shane pointed out to us "The less tools we had, the better horsemen we had to be!” Never has how we approach our horses been so important! For 10 days we focused on our approach and connecting with our horses. We were only given tools once we didn’t need them. While those that achieved this goal only added the halter on the last day, I can comfortably say I could at that point, lead my brumby anywhere with softness and willingness and most importantly no brace. I see a lot of resistance and brace built-up in brumbies during training because of their willingness to have a connection with people, meanwhile their trainers often miss the contributing factors towards that brace. Which down the road to being ridden, causes that brumby to never reach its full potential, to lack forward when being ridden, and potentially to have physical issues. This is not only for brumbies but for all riding horses. Self carriage is super important!


In this time we were able to achieve rubbing our horses all over, picking up their feet, following feel and not freaking out to pressure but that wasn’t the goal of what we were doing, they were just amazingly pleasant by-products. So as brumby advocates I know everyone reading this is now thinking yes, but how? During our time at the Junction we all spent time ‘in class’ discussing what we had tried and discovered so I’ll share the nuts and bolts of that with you here.


Firstly the big one for us Humans: Position is far more important than pressure. We can be a little single track focused (we are predators after all..) and in our task focus, we can put too much emphasis on getting the job done and start making our horses do what we want. And yes this starts from the moment you open the gate, if not before. How about trying with your position and an offer first before you go to pressure. Can you approach with softness in your horse before you enter the yard… and then keep it?


This leads nicely to the next one: Offer, and wait….longer…… and find more release moments. I know, you want it to happen now and don’t think you have time for the longer road, but believe me if you get this right, it might seem longer now, but down the track the results will be amazing and quick. It doesn't have to take a long time, unless that is what your expectation is. Your horse will look at you differently and start to offer more sooner.


Remember, Consistency and appreciation are a big deal to these guys! You know that offer and release I just mentioned? This will cement that deal and will build your connection with your horse. And they will try harder for you, doesn't everyone want that?


Whilst on the subject of connection: Every little yes builds rapport. Again wouldn’t you like a confident, willing partner? Isn’t the ultimate goal to have your horse and friend looking to you for what’s next? What are we doing today?


Find curiosity, especially so with the brumbies, they have such a natural curiousity, we should encourage that. It's so much easier to have a conversation with someone when they are interested in what you have to say, and it's no different with brumbies or any horse.


Have emotional development strategies and boundaries. I’ve talked a lot about connection and rapport with brumbies but that doesn't forgo good leadership. It is a balance everyone needs to learn. These horses still need boundaries, they need to know you are a good leader or they will feel they need to step up. Part of leadership is to expand your horses comfort zone. Know it's ok to stretch that, to take them into the unknown, show them its ok and then bring them back. It doesn't mean taking them to chaos… neither of you will learn anything there, but you will need to stretch them mentally.


And one which is possibly the one you can help Brumbies with the most. Be aware of our subconscious thoughts and have stillness in our mind. Calmness is a gift we can give to our horses. This is about us, and our thoughts and intentions. Remember horses have adapted to read predators very well over millions of years of survival so they know what you’re thinking by how you act, and in turn how your body moves is determined by your thoughts.


I’m very proud of everything I have achieved with the Southern Brumby Crew and I'm so happy to be able to share that with like-minded people. Looking back at this list I realise so much of it is why Aurora and I have such a special relationship. Why I generally seem to have a knack of having cool, confident and super smart horses. Without these things we could never have achieved what we have. This is an ever-evolving journey and I have certainly not perfected any of this, and I look forward to spending time growing and evolving further as a Horseman and Brumby Advocate.


Jen Renouf & The Brumby Crew

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